the modern equine world
The modern equine world has begun a shift over the last several years. From the perspective of an amatour horse owner, at least. To preface what’s ahead, much of what is being recognized now is not brand new, but rather being brought to light in different ways and platforms and in turn reaching more people. A direct example of this; the growing number of people stepping up against the major federations that are allowing blatent abuse.
There seems to be an increasing question of the “why,” rather than an almost blind following. It’s so relatable in this industry to always “trust the professionals.” Like most things, we easily suppress our gut instincts, because there’s someone around giving information we have to trust; or feel like we should because there’s an exchange of money involved. In each aspect of horse ownership, there’s some form of (if not many) equine professionals that the vast majority of owners must deal with. We could have any or all of the following; farrier, dentist, regular vet, emergency vet, trainer (or multiple), chiropractor, massage therapist and nutritionist. All of which are their own expense, rightfully so. With all of those facets, that truly only scratch the surface of horse ownership, as I’ve learned, we feel like we can and should put our trust in them! Growing up my scope of “leadership” was vastly different than now. I don’t only mean in the obvious sense, but in the idea that there was just the way you do things. How many of us can look at our own horsemanship approach and say, “that’s just how I’ve always done it.” What’s clearly visible is the shift. The shift of horse owners and leaders emerging who do not want to just do what they’ve always done. There’s been a very clear mentality of force and coercion that has driven the horse world for as long as I can remember, and well before that! We need to make them listen; we need to let them know who’s boss; we need to break them. To iterate the unwavering truth here; we do need us healthy boundaries when working with 1200 lb animals. The aspect that requires change is how we go about setting those boundaries and why we are setting them. Do we set healthy, respectful boundaries with our horses because we want to feel the connection and love they’re willing to give? Or do we set boundaries because deep inside it feels good to have that control? Maybe our ego is driving and we’re not willing to see what our horse is saying to us as they disassociate and become numb. To be a part of a shift in the autonomy our horses deserve. I think the collective of owners truly do want what’s right by their horse. They often walk the tightrope of what they’re told by the professional they’re paying and trusting their gut. And what a rivalry with yourself. How do you know when to trust your gut? How do you know when you feel misaligned with the direction you’re given? Self reflection goes a long way. But listening to your horse, and putting your horse first will always present the answer you’re looking for. In a world that has progressed and adapted to the modern society we live in today, the equine world seems a bit stuck in the past. Maybe in the sense of cool new gadgets and equipment we use with/on our horses. That’s still booming, as it centers around control and force. But, also like the mentality in which we approach our horses. We live in a world now that is much easier to recognize feelings are okay. Showing emotions, regardless of gender, is also okay. I am really just grateful to see that leaking into the equine world. I’m grateful to be a close part of the shift I am speaking on. And over anything else, I’m grateful we’re moving towards putting our horses first. Afterall, if we just made them the absolute priority, we’d see they’re the greatest teachers of all.